My Ex Wants Me Back

Does My Ex Really Want Me Back? - How To Read The Signs. by Cara09

Does my ex really want me back?

You may have recently broken up with your ex and you may even want to get back together but you're not sure if they really want you back. That's always the problem question as no-one wants to make the first move and take the risk of rejection if the other doesn't want to get back together.

However, after the breakup, if your ex is making an effort to flirt a little and showing a little bit of interest, or seems to be interested in going out, then perhaps it should be OK to be hopeful that you can get back together but you need to avoid rushing into things.

The common signs?

The signs above are definitely the common signs that your ex seems interested in getting back together but rushing headlong into a new phase of an old relationship is not the way to be happy together. Even if you do want to get back together, the best way is to play a little hard to get (but not too much) as your ex will probably respond well to this anyway. If you just jump straight in, and your ex does want you back, this may seem a little overpowering and they'll react by pushing you away. This is a kind of self defense reaction as people like time to sort things out properly. In fact, if your ex is now showing signs that they want you back, it was probably the playing hard to get that created that desire in the first place.

Are you missing one another?

After any break up there is always a natural level of missing each other. This is especially true when the relationship had been a long term one. However, if the relationship break-up was caused by the other being really unpleasant, you're probably better off without them anyway. Your ex is likely to miss you in any case especially in the early stages. This is usually a case of looking at shared memories through the proverbial rose tinted specs. If you find yourself thinking "does my ex want to get back with me" then there's a good chance your ex may be thinking exactly the same thing for the same reasons.

Could it be just a game though?

Sometime, when your ex shows interest after breaking up it's only a cruel game. They see that you still have feeling for them and this is their way of gaining a little bit of attention without ever intending to get back together. It may also be that they have no-one special in their lives at that time and they're really only "passing time" until someone else comes along. Or, as a worst case, this may be their cruel way of getting back at you for some wrong whether imagined or real. That's why, as we said above, it's important not to rush into anything but instead take time to find out what is actually happening before moving forward.

A new start?

The situation and feeling above are all too common and people find themselves wondering whether their ex does really want them back. The truth is that it's really important to get a feel for the situation before taking things too far. If indeed your ex does want to get back together than playing hard to get (up to a point) will help you decide whether feeling are real and they are also genuine. In this way, you'll find out whether your ex is really serious and save from you from being hurt for no good reason if your ex isn't really serous about getting back together.

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